Growing up, I experienced lots of pain and suffering. My mom, a single-parent, was working hard to make it as an immigrant and had to leave us in the care of extended family. Unfortunately, that home was very dysfunctional due to verbal abuse and addiction. To top it off I also experienced severe bullying in school. The pressures of home and school made me anxious and angry. I wanted to feel confident and free from the sadness, pain and loneliness I was feeling but I didn’t know how to change. So, one day, I hopped on a city bus and ended up at a local bookstore. I immersed myself in the world of emotions, the human brain, and the factors that drive change. That marked the beginning of my journey towards healing. I was 14 years old.
What’s interesting is that I don’t see those tough years as wasted. They’re a vital part of my life story, shaping the way I understand what you might be going through when you walk into my office. I’m not just spouting off textbook knowledge; I’ve lived it, and that adds a level of authenticity to our connection.